Warning to pregnant Mummas – contains detail of a difficult birth
Wow, how does a decade go so fast….Bam is 10 today and I’m looking back wondering how we arrived at today so quickly!
This morning he said to me ‘ Mum, you can have a glass of wine tonight. I’m impressed you have kept me alive for 10 years!’
Cheers matey, don’t mind if I do!
Bam made a dramatic entrance into the world. I had contractions on and off for 5 days before the birth. He wasn’t in the right position for birth, his back was against my back. This was making the whole process very painful. Not that I had anything to compare it to but let’s just say it was beyond my pain threshold!
I had the drip thingy to try and speed up the labour but nothing really happened, just a lot more pain but no dilation. This went on for hours and hours, I was absolutely shattered!
Bam was getting distressed and his heart rate was dropping every time I had a contraction. Before I knew it the alarms were going off and I had what felt like hundreds of doctors standing around the bed!
Following some tests I was told that there was a lack of oxygen getting to his brain. The doctors advised me that they needed to get him out via C-section within 8 minutes.
It was horrible, really frightening. I lost a lot of blood and was feeling quite unwell. I wondered if we would both be ok.
We were, but I was always worried that Bam would have some form of brain damage due to the lack of oxygen reaching his brain. It was always there nagging at me.
Bam met all of his milestones and happily went off to school. I actually remember thinking, he’s going to be ok, he’s at school and he’s learning so everything must be ok.
In the first Christmas holidays of Bam’s school life, he began having seizures. This was the start of his diagnosis of cortical dysplasia (brain damage -in his case very mild but enough to cause him a few challenges along the way)
10 years later, we are still learning how the cortical dysplasia affects Bam and probably will for a good few years yet…
The last 10 years have been amazing, I wouldn’t change one thing about my boy, because he’s perfect in every way!
Happy 10th birthday Bam Bam! xxx